Alumni Storybook

Anna, College of St. Benedict, St. Joseph,
MN
This summer I had the pleasure of being Program staff in Coastal
Carolina. I could share story after story of God’s faithfulness
throughout my summer. I could share about my amazing staff
who blessed me beyond belief or I could share stories about
the wonderful community of Coastal who loved us and supported
us more than any of us expected, but one story sticks out in
my mind and appropriately, it is a story about a youth.
During Early Bird my Area Director challenged our entire region
to spend time with youth who were not like us. It is great when
you meet youth who are very similar to yourself, those that you
hit it off with right away, but it is always a challenge when
you encounter youth who are not like you, those youth you don’t
think you have anything in common with. Typically, those are
the youth who need you the most.
The second week of programming this summer we had a young lady
come to our site that had Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. She was quickly
set apart from the rest of the group because of her facial features,
her shy and quite nature and her slower overall functioning.
She was very difficult to communicate with. I would attempt to
talk with her but sometimes she didn’t understand me or
would respond with very short simple answers. It was hard to
get to know her but I continued to pursue a relationship with
her. I spent a ton of time with her sometimes talking sometimes
not. When I discovered she loved art I borrowed some art supplies
from Kids Club. We drew and colored during free time and began
to enjoy one another. I attempted to share about my faith with
her but it didn’t seem like I was getting much of a response
so I just continued to spend time with her and love her.
Thursday night as I was heading out to the community cookout
I felt drawn to check my Happy Fun Bag. Typically I do not check
my bag until the weekend so it was weird that I check it then.
When I looked in my bag I found a note from Kayla and attached
to it was a fish necklace she had been wearing all week. The
note was hard to read and looked like it was written by a five
year old, but it was the most beautiful note I have ever read.
Kayla thanked me for spending so much time with her that week
and that she had never felt so loved. She also told me that she
had decided to accept Christ that week and felt happier than
she ever had in her life. That night we sat and talked for a
good hour about God and faith. It was one of the most amazing
conversations of my life. I was so blessed and honored to share
and be a part of one of the most important experiences of this
young lady’s life. This is one example of how God changes
lives through YouthWorks. This story is actually an example of
two lives being changed.
If you would please take a moment to pray for Kayla as she struggles
every day with her disease and her home life. Now she has the
confidence that she has a Father who thinks she is the most beautiful
person despite her facial features, who loves her more than she
can comprehend and is waiting for her with open arms.
Scott, Taylor University, Upland, IN
It seems like after a summer doing something such as YouthWorks
people ask, “What’d ya learn?” Missions is
supposed to bring about change, right? God wouldn’t let
me go through such an experience without the plan to teach me
something, would He? No, he would not.
What have I learned? I could go on and on and share for hours
about what I learned this summer.
There were so many experiences so different from what I am
used to, how could I not learn? How could I not be changed?
Prep Week - I learned how different suburban
America is from the Navajo Nation or any reservation. It doesn’t
matter how much you try to imagine it, until you see it, you
will never know.
Week One- It doesn’t matter how much you prep, sometimes
you have to learn on your feet.
Week Two - The difficulty of sharing the Gospel
with a group of people whose spirituality and culture are one.
If you tell them their religion is wrong, you are telling them
that their culture is wrong. If you tell them their culture is
wrong, you are telling them that who they are is wrong. This
is wrong.
Week Three - Perspective- sometimes
stuff happens that stinks, but when it comes down to it, a little
perspective can do a lot.
Week Four - The joy that there is in high
school students.
Week Five - When the Gospel is proclaimed
it is a good thing, in fact a great thing. No matter what...it
is a good thing.
Week Six - The joy that there is in junior
high students.
Week Seven - The blessing of falling off a
roof.
Week Eight - How encouraging a summer of change
can be.
These are things I learned, but if someone asks me what that
one thing is that will stick with me, I will tell them I learned
I know nothing and I understand nothing. I came into this summer
thinking I was going to leave with understanding and knowledge
of who God was and what He is doing. Sure, I gained some of this,
but really I learned I know nothing. I know nothing of His sovereignty,
His strength, His wisdom and the depth of who He is. I realize
I may never understand these things, but at the same time I am
excited to question God and to wrestle with Him for these answers.
I know He is good and I know He is faithful. He will give me
the strength for the next day. Sometimes this is what a summer
in a world far different from ours can do.
Johan, Michigan State University, East Lansing, MI
I learned this summer that God put basketball on this planet
for one reason, and that is to share His love with people, not
to score baskets, humiliate the opponent or dunk the ball over
someone. No, it is all about loving people.
It may sound silly and far fetched at first, but when it really
started to sink in, I understood that not a step I would take
on that basketball court in rural
Marvell with the teens of the community would have any eternal
impact whatsoever unless the steps were taken with purpose – purpose
of showing people the love of Christ.
Because I was an alumni staff returning to Marvell, I had the
privilege of having established relationships with the community.
Last summer was spent trying to get a foot into the community
teens' lives, and now it was time to get deeper. They knew me
now by name, but it was time they knew my heart and I theirs.
God placed the basketball playing community teens so heavy on
my heart. Yes, it is fun to play basketball and yes, it keeps
you in shape, but there is more to it. I came to fall in love
with these trash- talking, hard fouling, streetballing guys.
And I really got to study the beauty of people even in the toughest
situations I faced on the court.
Time after time, daily, I had the chance to be Jesus with basketball
shoes on. Slowly, but surely after investing four hours a day
with these community teenage guys I became the one they would
come to and talk about relationships, college, premarital sex,
God and just to chat. I was asked to come and fish for catfish
one weekend with one of the older teens and even though plans
never worked out, that offer was more important to me than any
basketball game could ever have been. Since inter-racial relationships
are not common in Marvell, Arkansas, it was a big step and through
something as simple as basketball I started seeing more and more
of this.
I dreaded the day I would have to leave the trash talk on the
court, the serious talks on the sidelines and the communal prayer
after one of the players got hurt. It wasn't basketball anymore;
it was a place where we all found common ground leaving prejudice
and backgrounds aside. And as the last day approached the guys
could not have made it harder for me when player after player
came up to voice his dismay in my leave asking me to move down,
asking why I couldn't even just stay for the rest of the year.
I was so taken back, so humbled, but most of all I know now that
every time I put my basketball shoes on it is for nothing but
one reason, sharing the love of Christ.
Ben, St. John's University, Collegeville, MN
Last spring when I first received word that I was offered a Kids
Club staff position I was overwhelmed with joy! I was even
more excited a couple weeks later when I finally received word
that I was placed in Daytona Beach, FL. Now I knew what I would
be doing for the summer: living somewhere away from home, meeting
and working with three other young men and women on my
staff (who would become some of my closest friends) and basically
just hanging out/playing with kids and showing them the love
of Jesus all summer long!
It seemed like it would all be pretty smooth and easy…
After
our first week of programming, I could tell that the summer was
not going to be quite as easy as I thought. The virtue that became
the theme for the summer was “patience.” This
was especially true in my specific role in running Kids Club
every day. The kids who came to Kids Club in Daytona Beach were,
at times, quite challenging to work with.
On the first day of Kids Club we had over ten kids show up,
which was a great success considering we didn’t have any
type of pre-registration. Gradually, by the end of the first
week, and then by the end of week two, fewer kids were continuing
to come. However, one young boy named Modarian didn’t miss
a single day of Kids Club in those first two weeks. For the others,
attendance was very much day-to-day. It was never easy to tell
whether we would have fifteen kids coming for the day, or perhaps
only five or six. This struggle to bring more kids from the community
to our great program of Kids Club really weighed me down, but
Modarian was one kid that I could count on to always come. One
weekend in the beginning of the summer he even helped me recruit
more kids by riding his bike around his neighborhood with me
and telling his friends how much fun he had coming and learning
and playing every day.
As the summer went on, more kids started to come to Kids Club.
By the end of the summer our average number of kids each day
was in the 20s. There were often kids who didn’t want to
participate in activities, who wouldn’t listen and participate
in the skits, and who would disobey the rules simply because
they wanted to break the rules! There were even a couple minor
fights that broke out between the kids. No matter what the situation,
the policy for discipline at our Kids Club was to talk about
the situation with the kids involved and try and solve the problem
through discussion. This approach always took a great deal of
patience. Perhaps the one thing that I stressed more than any
other while introducing the kids to the high school and junior
high youth there to serve each week was, “God does not
create bad kids!” The kids only need our patience, attention
and love. This is what Kids Club is all about!
I am so happy that I was given the opportunity to work for YouthWorks
this past summer. I am especially grateful that I was given the
Kids Club staff position. There were days this summer when I
wished that I had responsibilities other than leading 15 youth
and 25 five to ten years olds, but looking back I know that I
was in the right position. I miss all of the kids from Daytona
Beach that came to Kids Club so much every day! What makes me
happy and excited is to know that YouthWorks will be back in
Daytona next summer, and that Kids Club will continue to be a
safe and fun place for the kids of this community to hang out
and come and learn the love of Jesus.
Brett, Valparaiso University, Valparaiso, IN
Spending my summer as a Work Projects staff on the Mohawk Reservation,
I experienced what it means to be part of the Church. This was
not confined by a physical structure or associated with a specific
congregation. It was the body of Christ that came from many different
places and different congregations. The crazy part is that it
was comprised of seven different weeks of people that never met
each other, but they were doing the same work. The Mohawk community
saw us as a single Church comprised of many individuals that
came to love and serve their community. It blows my mind that
I, as a YouthWorks staff, saw what the Church is capable of making
happen.
Every week this summer, new high school youth spent their time
serving in the nursing homes. Because of this consistency, Michael
always had a partner that he could beat in Monopoly. Frank had
many ears to listen to his stories. Grace had someone to hold
her hand. After only two weeks of serving there, a nurse mentioned, “We’ve
already seen an improvement in the emotional states of the residents
since you started coming.”
I led many high school youth in painting various homes. They
took this time to build relationships with the homeowners. As
a result, homeowners like Ernestine learned that young people
are willing to serve. Angie started searching for a church in
the community. Theresa simply made new friends.
It was through a continual presence of having 60 new people
come each week that we were able to stretch so far into a community.
A buzz of our presence was created, and it wasn’t the negative
buzz that they previously knew from Christians. It was a buzz
that some Christians were there to simply serve. It was love.
By being there all summer, it was something that I could watch
develop. This was unlike weeklong trips I have been on where
I only see an impact on an individual level. Here, I saw our
impact on a community level. God just blew my mind away by showing
me a new definition of what it means to be part of the Church.
Karen, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School, Vernon Hills, IL
An excerpt from Karen’s summer journal:
This week, I experienced so many simple pleasures. On the first
day that we worked at Ellen’s house, she fed our youth
a huge dinner of chicken dumplings, two types of cake, and
green beans from the garden, biscuits, mashed potatoes and
sweet tea! When Drew and I dropped off Ethyl’s tupperware
at her house, she invited us in and I experienced the hospitality
of a woman who quietly loves through feeding people. We ate
huge chunks of banana bread, iced tea like Grandma makes it
and chicken casserole.
During our Wednesday evening church service, as I listened to
Pastor John say how thankful he was to preach to so many different
people this summer, I realized that God had given us to this ‘country-boy
from up a holler’, as he refers to himself, as a gift,
perhaps for his faithful service over the years. Thursday, our
last day of programming, the Lord gave us this unique day in
which the sun seemed to shine with a deeper light than I had
noticed all summer and the clouds were puffy and big, like those
in Colorado before the afternoon summer showers.
Our adult leaders this week served us as a staff. One man in
his fifties from Iowa who earned the name ‘Cookie’ on
a previous mission trip did little things all the time for the
staff and kids, like serving quietly by cleaning. When I went
down to prep for breakfast crew at 6:30 on Wednesday morning,
another adult leader, Tom, had already made the coffee and put
out the first part of breakfast. And now as I write, I sit at
Jan and Ken’s coffee shop, Country at Heart, stomach full
with a pimento cheese sandwich. God gave me so many simple pleasures
this week that made me smile and bubble over with excitement.
I also experienced the pain of people that I could not stop.
So I just sought Jesus in the gospels and in our lives to see
how he walked and what he calls us, his people, to.
At our community cookout, I got to meet Lizzy’s (Kids
Club child) mother, a woman with blazing blue eyes who was the
first female coal mining foreman in the state of Kentucky and
who has walked with her six year old daughter through a brain
tumor that doctors did not believe was a problem. Lizzy’s
mom had only left her at two places in the last year and a half
and allowing her to go to Kids Club made three. When they left
on Thursday, her mom cried because this was the first place Lizzy
had not been made fun of because of the paralysis of her left
side, and because Lizzy had experienced the love of Jesus with
the kids, our youth and my staff.
Also on Thursday afternoon at Kids’ Club, I listened to
two of the children talk about drug use in their area. One lost
his father to a drug overdose (prescription drug abuse down here
is the big thing people get hooked on, although marijuana is
used by many) but wouldn’t acknowledge it when his younger
sister said their dad had done drugs. Instead he vehemently lashed
out at her. The knowledge of drugs among the community children
was shocking. One boy wanted to work for change, but said violence
was the answer and that he was going to become a police officer
and kill all the members of drug cartels. His junior high friend
shot back that it was hopeless, that this was Kentucky and people
just did drugs. Why do kids go through this?
I’m not sure what the answers are. I think the challenge
of the Christian is to daily die to ourselves and live to Christ,
and I have faith that as we seek to do so, we will find more
and more delight, joy and security in Jesus.
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